Sunday, November 29, 2009

娶嫁

Finally got our wedding cards on the 12 Nov from the printer (tDragon) after 3 LOOOONG weeks.


The process
After choosing the card design that we want from the hotel, we proceed to go to tdragon on the 23rd Oct 09 to discuss on the wordings... Well actually our appt with them is on the 26th Oct but we adhocly decided to go take a look at the shop on the 23rd Oct and surprise surprise it was still open after 9p.m. and the lady just welcomed us in to discuss on the designs. The lady who attended to us was not very friendly. Kind of impatient I think. Hmmph.

Customization

  • material: We get to choose whether to print on paper (opaque or translucent) or directly on the card. card printing can come in gold or copper. Paper printing has also 'brown' color wordings.
  • wordings: our names, additional words to put, traditional/simplified chinese
  • icons: cute small pics to put in the card costing 10$ per piece
  • Font: yeah, just font


Then we were told to wait for 2 weeks before the artist come back to us on the design template again to confirm on the wordings. The initial drafts didn't come out too well with error in the icons, wordings and even layout, sighhh... Had to chase chase chase to get the changes done promptly.

At card collection we had to count to ensure that we have all our 180 cards. Not difficult but tedious. That impatient lady attended to us again. There was this 1 card that was meant to be a sample taken out of the pack prepared for us. I jus asked whether the sample is part of the 180 cards cos it looks crumpled. That lady then jus commented that we opened to look at it and therefore it look crumpled. What the?!

The final product




Sunday, November 1, 2009

婚纱摄影 ~ 第1部

去年的中秋節,我被阿寶帶到Suntec City參加吃cup-cakes比賽。賽果不必多說是慘敗。阿寶沒吃幾個就不行了,簡直就是超遜。我想比賽並非重點吧,重點應該是周邊的婚禮展。於是落敗后便是逛婚禮展。  

參展的禮服店還不少,國內外的都有。當中就有一家的名字把我們給吸引了~浪漫一生。招待我們的業務員很熱情,典型的台灣人。她拿了許多相本讓我們看,拍攝的感覺很棒,很自然,很浪漫。其中,以櫻花為主的婚紗照更是讓人動容。  

看者阿寶的眼,我知道該做什麼了。

Groom's Suit ~ The Fitting

The original fitting was scheduled on 17 October, Saturday. Unfortunately my weak stomach gave me trouble again. Had a bad bout of food poisoning and a bad diagnosis of appendicitis. Nearly went to the A&E for nothing again.

The session was hence rescheduled to the following Saturday, a few hours before Lorraine's workshop. Was expecting it to take a while, but to my surprise, the measurements were largely correct. No major changes required.

The white dress shirt cutting was good. I felt comfortable wearing it, in fact I felt that it was better done than CYC's. Now, I'm contemplating whether to make another, since I perspire a lot. But perhaps another fabric, to be worn without the waistcoat.

The pants were good too. Not too tight nor too loose. My dear bride actually commented that the bottoms cutting were much better than all of my OTR pants! Just one important thing to take note, need to wear formal shoes in the next fitting, just to check the length. And yes, the fabric felt smooth, nice and comfortable.

Although the waistcoat was not fully done, it felt fitting too. Simon decided to make minor alterations on the sides as it seemed to be a little loose. They also marked out the buttons positions. We also added a buckle at the back since I somehow forgotten about this. I wanted to change the back lining to the same as my coat, but dear bride raised violent objections. I guess she doesn't want me to steal her lime-light! Oh well, I'd better oblige.

The last was the coat itself. Really nothing to alter at all. It fitted nicely, especially the shoulders. The only thing we did was to adjust the sleeve length to show the french cuffs. Since the sleeve will have functional buttons, I would probably unbutton the first.

All these took less than an hour, significantly lesser than what I had expected. But strangely, both of us didn't remember to take photos of the session! Well, just have to remember to do it in the next fitting.

Saturday, September 5, 2009

只有懒女人没有丑女人。。。

我想很多女人在婚礼当天很期待的其中一样东西就是能打扮得漂漂亮亮的。。我也不例外啦!^_^

所以选择化妆师很重要。起初还觉得没那么紧张,觉得只要钱出得起找一位好的化妆师应该没问题。六月间开始寻找行动才发现事情可是没那么容易。。

第一个咨询的是Liren. 三月到台湾拍照时婚纱店就给了我们她的联络号码。在网上看了一下她的作品还不错就觉定打给她。可惜她当天已有工作了。没法子要继续找。。上网看,问朋友,打电话。。过程还不算辛苦。。问题就在如何做决定。

价格方面大概500-900之间。可收费里包含的东西也有差。
有些需附加费的有:
眼睫毛和安品
邀请化妆师6。30点以前到家里
晚间做多过一个造型
式妆

有些还能让你借用饰品。。。各个化妆师一天接待的新娘数量也不同哦 (我听说有高达三位新娘的!)还有一次遇过要求新娘到化妆室去的。一大清早要达得士还要化浓妆回家可真是不可想像!为了要把结婚当天这么重要的任务交给谁可真是大伤脑筋。式妆可不便宜。式完后如果决定不要聘用化妆师的话大多还要付上100多元所以我也不敢轻易去式妆。

8月22日终于去式了妆决定选了个叫Wynn 的化妆师。大多化妆都非常注重眼部。式妆时Wynn就花了大部分时间在眼睛^_^ 重点就是尽量把眼睛弄得越大越好。化妆搞定了还不完美哦。还得想发型。式妆当天还没想好发型。没法子只好过后才把想法电邮给Wynn。。。

现在要努力研究发型了!

Wednesday, August 19, 2009

結婚對戒

你是怎樣度過國慶(8月9日)的呢?是和家人,朋友在濱海灣浮動舞台觀賞國慶典禮還是在電視前收看呢?我們是在Cartier Ion Orchard度過的。阿寶說買結婚戒指的事不能在拖了,再拖農歷7月都快到了,而且她也大概決定好要買哪款了。

這次我們從2樓進入Cartier,很巧的是上來招待我們的是第一次來的業務員Julian。這樣就好辦了,直接告訴他我們要看上回的那3款戒指。Julian把我們帶到1樓去看Trinity

有小鑽的Trinity太貴了,大概5,000++新幣。沒鑽石的Trinity,阿寶始終覺得不過亮,又害怕很快會磨花。她始終不喜歡classic design。

第2款戒指在2樓,於是我們乘搭小電梯上去!原來Cartier裡頭居然還有部小電梯。它大概能容納3~4人吧(如果不是胖子)。阿寶的無名指實在太小了,她得戴最小的size 46。偏偏這款size 46又賣完了!記得上回來的時候還有的。。。

沒法子,隻好又到1樓去看LOVE ring。阿寶的無名指再次給她一擊!她要得pink gold沒有size!到最后,阿寶選擇了white gold。當然,她那款怎麼會少了好友~小鑽呢!我的當然沒有。兩隻戒指都個有certificate的哦。

刷卡的那一剎那我並沒有什麼特別感受,畢竟上回已經刷過Lazare了。貼心的阿寶決定和我交換戒指:她的那枚由我買,我的那枚由她買。

女人就是有特權能擁有engagement ring和wedding ring。男人就命苦了,隻能有wedding ring和suffering。:-p

至今,戒指還沒刻字呢。當天並不能決定要刻什麼,隻好等想好后在到Cartier 高島屋去刻,當天便能取回!

想看我們的戒指嗎?那就不能錯過我們的婚禮!

Tuesday, August 18, 2009

Groom's Suit ~ The Action!

As I didn't enquire about floating canvas during my research trips to the tailors, I decided to email all 3 of them to find out more. I thought to myself, whichever who bothered to check their emails and reply promptly would probably get my deal.

The first reply came from Kingsmen. Their reply was - they do both. However, they charges S$ 100 extra for floating canvas. Next came Coloc's reply.

Simon replied that he only do full floating canvas and there was no mentioning of extra charges.

I decided to narrow down my option to either Coloc or Kingsmen. Both have equally long history in the tailoring scene. Kingsmen's advantage is that it appears to be more modern and trendy in its designs. It's disadvantage is definitely in its pricing. It is certainly on the high side, which extra charges for requests such as functional sleeve buttons, stitched lapel, floating canvas. Their fabric selection was okay for the
Super 130s selection.

For Coloc, my initial visit was to the Marriott hotel's outlet. The shop front is definitely not as trendy and modern as Kingsmen. The fabric selections there were similar. However, its wedding package of a 3 piece suit at S$ 950 was tempting. In fact, the tailor was willing to do all the extras at no additional charges.

Sensing and fearing that I would have to keep paying for extras at Kingsmen, I decided to take up Coloc. The only issue I had was Coloc Raffles or Marriott. 阿寶's concern was that Coloc Marriott didn't appear to have trendy designs based on those suits on display. I suppose no bride in a great gown would want to stand beside a groom wearing a outdated suit. Not to mention that she's been complaining about how old fashion my Goldlion's suit was.

So we decided to visit Coloc Raffles to check it out, to trust her woman's instincts/feelings about a shop. Although we'd sort of passed by it during one of our visits to CYC, it took us
a while to find the shop. Again, the shop front isn't as trendy as Kingsmen, but it definitely looks more modern as to its brother shop at Marriott.

Simon definitely looked better in person than the small photo at his website. I quickly introduced myself and we got down to business. Told him that I'm not going to use the suit for work after my wedding. Simon showed us a lot of fabric. And there were all Super 150s. He offered a 3-piece suit (inclusive of a shirt) wedding package at S$ 1,200.

After browsing through a lot of fabrics, we settled for a pinstripe fabric which has a sheen. During the browsing, Simon would lay the small fabric over my hand to simulate how it would look like on me. Sometimes he would lay it over a model (with a suit) to simulate the end product. This helped me to visualize how it would be. I got a feeling that 阿寶 actually still prefers fabric that has designs to form patterns rather than pinstripe. Simon brought out a completed pinstripe suit for me to try on, as 阿寶 felt that it would look weird. But it doesn't.

The next decision was for the lining. As the fabric was orange pinstripe, Simon suggested matching the lining with peach. 阿寶 found it too girly. He asked if I'm open to yellow, which we took a look and immediately settled on it! The lining's Zegna branding helped in closing the decision. For the suit's front pockets, Simon suggested them to be at an angle. We agreed since we don't have much opinions on this.

For the lapel, I decided to use peaked lapel rather than notched lapel. Typical business suits have notched lapel. As I'm not making a tuxedo, no vent is out of the question. It's a matter of single (central) or double (dual) vent. Selected the double (dual) vent as it provides more mobility.

We didn't make the decision for using horn or shell buttons for the jacket. This could be decided later. Both are natural materials and hence, their 'colors' are natural. Meaning, you can't say you want a particular color! But hey, this means the 'color' wouldn't fade. And yes, shell buttons do feel cold when touched.

For the pants, there is only 1 single decision to be made: to have belt loops or buckles by the side. The advantage of wearing belt is that in event that my waist dropped a couple of inches, I could still wear the pants. The problem is that I've to matched it with my shoes' color (or even getting a new belt is a hassle on its own). For buckles, they only offer half to an inch room for slimming down. But since I'd not tried it before, and I doubt I would lose so many inches, I decided to go for buckles. Now, even if I did lose that many inches, I certainly won't mind paying for alterations!

As there are now 3 colors, the vest fabric selection would have to be careful. I don't want to end up like a clown donning multiple colors. Simon suggested 2 tones of green fabric (both have sheen), but I'm not really into green color. There's always a fall back plan to use the same fabric as the suit, but I contemplated against it. Decided to use a greyish/silver bird-eye fabric. When worn on its own, it would appear to be an individual piece, and it also goes with the suit's fabric. This time round, didn't go for the yellow lining as the back of the vest, instead opted for black. Not wanting to be too flamboyant. The bride is the peacock of the day.

The last decision to be made was the dress shirt. White was the selection. Coincidentally my shirt looks like this. I decided to go for concealed buttons. Since it is a white shirt, the buttons would be matching white.

Now that all the necessary decisions were made, it's time for Simon to work. The first question he asked was whether I want a perfect fit or have some allowances. While a perfect fit would be ideal, the thought of it being too restrictive is a concern. Hence, decided to opt for a good fit, rather than skin fit.

I lost count of how many measurements he took of me, from my top to bottom, shoulders, arm length, wrist size, leg length, etc. It took us around an hour or more, to complete the selection, decisions and measurements. At the end of it, I could see that 阿寶 is very hungry!

Finally, our investments? S$ 1,300. The first fitting is somewhere end August and Simon is pretty confident that 1 fitting is all he needs. By end October I would be able to get my gear for the big day!

Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Marriage Solemnization

One of the challenging aspect in marrying in Singapore is - marriage solemnization. Although there're 365 days in a year, the realistic truth is that most couples get married on popular dates. Also, to make it convenient for relatives, friends and guests to share the happiness, weekends or public holidays are usually selected.

Now, there're only 52 weeks in a year, hence, 104 (Saturdays & Sundays), if you count in Fridays, that would be 156. For Chinese, the lunar 7th month is out, some shy away from marrying in middle of the year, hence, the available dates are really limited. Not forgetting that if you're seeking for auspicious dates, it would be even more severely limited.

Other than the time factor, there's also the venue factor. Traditionally, couples take their oaths at the Registry of Marriages, a.k.a, ROM. Nowadays, venues outside ROM are well-liked as they are more personal and convenient.

It is interesting to find out from the ROM website that it is actually illegal to hold your customary marriage before your civil marriage!

Other than fighting with other couples for the perfect date and time, the process of inviting a solemniser is also daunting. Again, people seek out solemnisers via word of mouth or nowadays, the Internet.

The process of emailing and calling up only to find the solemniser unavailable for your special day is a
common story for couples. Horror stories of the solemniser failing to turn up on the big day are not unheard of too!

우리 선생님 had a bad experience as her solemniser kept pronouncing her name wrongly. Certainly adds on unnecessary stress to the bride!

Us, both being NTU Alumni, do have its benefits. And one of it that we're taking advantage of is to invite Mr Soon Min Yam, the Director of the Alumni Affairs Office, to solemnize for us. Mr Soon is a licensed Deputy Registrar of Marriages since 1992. This does indeed save us a lot of effort, and it is rather meaningful and special.

Thursday, July 16, 2009

求婚戒指

它也許會左右你的成敗,但肯定的是它會令你的荷包受傷。也許會有些現代女性不介意沒有它,但這絕對是少數的!曾聽說有人用手表來替代它,但有些傳統就是不能替代的。友人曾對我解釋過它的形狀為什麼不是心形而是圓形;心形是有缺的,圓形卻是代表著永遠,永恆和無缺。

它的名字有很多,如:求婚戒指或訂婚戒指。它對許許多多的女性來說是何等的重要!

既然求婚戒指這麼重要,選購時自然要費點心思。預算是一大考量。曾聽一些女性說,求婚戒指的預算應該是新郎3個月的工資!可憐的新郎3個月都得吃泡面了。預算設定得過高,婚禮其他重要的環節都會受影響,如喜宴,婚紗,攝影和結婚對戒等。預算太低又難買到一枚能戴終生的戒指。 於是我決定先不設定預算。我先確定戒指是否要鑽石。這其實很容易,現在大概沒幾位女性能接受一枚沒有鑽石的戒指,更別說是有鑽石的求婚戒指!我嘗試從女性的角度去想:當3-4個女人在一起聊求婚戒指時,會聊些什麼,注意些什麼。我的結論是:鑽石的大小,品牌和價格。

於是我開始上網找資料,做研究。我的結論是一般有名氣的鑽戒都太貴了,有2~3成是付品牌費的!但是一刻品牌不受歡迎的鑽戒大概很難被未來女主人接受吧。在我問過的女生當中,就沒有一位是能接受TKJ鑽戒的!其它品牌如SK,SKJ,LH和GH的價格於國際品牌(不包括T&Co)的差距並非很大。服務員的態度也並非十分專業。隻能說他們是業務員而非鑽石行家。

Groom's Suit ~ The Research

If you're a groom-to-be and you happen to have a package with a bridal shop, you probably wouldn't need to know much about suits. You're constrained to what are available off-the-rack (OTR) at the bridal shop. Chances are these options would be good enough (for most decent bridal shops). The recent trend is that the groom's pants would be made-to-measure (MTM) and to keep. That is quite good as a decent pair of OTR pants could cost in the range of 80~100 SGD (think G2000).

But what if you don't have a bridal package, or for some reasons, you do not like their selections? Then perhaps like myself, you've to either: (1) rent (2) purchase. Renting doesn't makes much economical sense since the rental of a suit alone isn't as cheap as compared to it being a part of a bridal package.

For purchase, OTR from G2000, Marks & Spencer, Zara or Topman are all possible options. The downside is that you cannot control the fabrics used, you cannot have a perfect fit or a cutting that you like. You're limited to what is on the rack. If the size for a particular design that you fancied is out of stock, you've to change your option or get a bigger size and have it altered. And of course, there's a risk that someone attending your wedding may turn up with that same suit! Nevertheless, buying OTR is not without its merits. You get to see the end product immediately and you get lesser headache as compared with tailoring. With GSS now on, Hugo Boss is having sales of 40% off their suits!

My decision? To go for tailoring, bespoke tailoring. It's pretty much like why some people like to DIY their own furniture, their computers, etc. I get to decide the fabrics, the buttons, the cuttings and it is truly fitting. But the headache that comes with this decision, is not little.

For a start, I need to find a reputable tailor to do the work. There are the heartland tailors with their tempting prices; the aggressive salesmen at tourist traps such as Lucky Plaza, Far East Plaza/Shopping Centre and also the established ones in reputable hotels such as Raffles Hotel & Marriott Hotel.

It is extremely important to differentiate between a salesman and a tailor. A salesman is someone who would tempt you into getting that expensive fabric or over-promising and under-delivering the final product. A salesman earns predominantly from his commission, hence the more he sells, the more he earns. A tailor should be one who is able to advise on the latest fashion trend, whether certain cuttings or designs are suitable and he would be able to explain the finer details of tailoring a suit.

Again, the Internet is such a wonderful resource to help research for the right tailor. I came to narrow down my options to 3 tailors: Kingsmen, Coloc and Mode et Creation. Both Kingsmen & Coloc go all the way back to 1950s.

Kingsmen recently sponsored 3 suits for Shawn Chen (Mediacorp) for his wedding.

The tailor at Coloc was very friendly and he offers a simple-to-understand wedding package.

Anthony from Mode et Creation was trained in London. With each tailor having its own merits, it is difficult to make a decision.

So, what do look out for in a suit? The fabric - an obvious answer. Decent tailors wouldn't offer polyester, but do check out the labels from OTR suits as polyester could be in it. Linen are bad options for formal suits as it crumples easily. Micro-fiber are breathable but it definitely loses out to mother nature, i.e., wool. The Executive at Suntec City has a 888 SGD wedding package that starts by using micro-fiber. Expensive, if you ask me.

Cashmere wool would be a good option for our climate. So make sure your tailor shows you nothing but wool, if you're making a suit for an important occasion, like your wedding. You would most likely see something like Super 130, Super 150, etc. In general, the higher the number, the better it is.

You may have heard of single/double breasted suit. So what should you be looking out for? It depends on your built. For myself, I would be getting a single breasted suit, else I would end up enlarging my built. A good tailor would advise you on this. Your suit needs to complement your bride, and my bride, being petite, I need to make myself looks smaller in order to lesser our built difference.

The shape of the lapel would also play a part in shaping your body, giving an illusion of you being bigger or smaller than you actually are. Sometimes you see a lapel hole, sometimes you don't. If you watched Wimbledon recently, you probably caught Roger's new Rolex advertisement. His suit has a lapel hole. You'll need it. Make sure it is functional. You could put your corsage in it. Some suits have stitches at the edges of the lapel, those in Hugo Boss definitely have it. Most OTR like G2000 would probably not have it. This is sometimes taken as a symbol of bespoke tailoring. That the canvass is hand stitched rather than fused. A fused canvass won't last long due to dry cleaning. So check with your tailor on this! Other than lapel canvass, the main suit body also has a canvass. Hence it is important to find out whether it is half fused or fully hand stitched suit.

How many buttons should I have? Well, 2 or 3. Tailor at Coloc said he could let me see how I would look like in both and then decide. But typically 2 wouldn't go wrong. But never, ever, button all your buttons. Other than the front buttons, there are typically 4 buttons on each sleeve. Some OTR don't have any. Some would have fixed buttons, but not functional. Tailors called these functional buttons as undo buttons or removable buttons. This is a sign of bespoke tailoring. It is often hand crafted. I'd seen Topman suit with fixed buttons and fake button holes, that is at least better than no buttons. For suit, horn buttons are the norm. Accept nothing lesser.

Linings of a suit. Typical OTR would have the same or similar color. If the suit is black, so is the lining. Now thats where tailoring is different. You can mix & match! You can have a black plain suit with red lining, this is more personal and adds a bit of fun into an otherwise boring suit. Similarly, the linings for the sleeves can be different too.

When you speak with a tailor or salesman, you need to inform them whether you're looking for a 2-piece or 3-piece suit. The 3rd piece is actually the vest or waist-coat. A vest is able to shape your body and make it more V-shaped. Also it makes you stand out from the banquet captain who is also probably wearing a suit. A vest can be of the same fabric as the suit or it could be of a different fabric to create the contrast.

Whether it is a 2-piece or 3-piece suit, you need to have a shirt. Typically it would be good to have a 2-ply Egyptian cotton material dress shirt. Plaits in the front would make it lesser boring or lesser waiter-like. Concealed buttons are nice too. For shirts, it is the norm to expect shell buttons. OTR typically gives you plastic. French cuffs is also the trend now.

If you're wearing a belt, make sure it is the same color as your dress shoes. If not, remember to ask the tailor to not include belt loops.

Typically 2~3 fittings are required to complete the suit. With so much detail to hand craft, it is extremely difficult to trust sales folks who claim to be able to deliver within 24 hours. All 3 reputable ones that I enquired would require 2 months time to complete the work.

喜宴

The wedding ceremony and banquet would be held on 26 December 2009 (Saturday), Boxing Day, at Ocean Ballroom, Pan Pacific Hotel, Singapore.